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Living Your Legacy: A Simple Life of Gratitude

by Carol Donald

As a longtime donor to YESS, it wasn’t difficult when staff asked me if I could write something about what inspires me to donate: why, since 1998 I have supported their programs and services for youth through donations and volunteering; and why, since 2015, I have been a monthly donor; and why, when I recently updated my will, I included a bequest to YESS?


For me, gratitude is the most important emotion. I recall a newspaper clipping many years ago in which the writer essentially said if you are waiting for that big holiday, new car, or larger home, you won’t be happy much of the time. However, if you can be happy watching the sunset, having a coffee on the patio, or laughing with a friend, you will be happy most of the time. It all boils down to gratitude. I am most fortunate in that my typical day starts with coffee with a friend, a swim at the pool or a walk by the river, followed by time in my studio where I make mosaics. I live simply, and my basic needs are met. For all of that I am profoundly grateful.

The Joys of Volunteering / Photo courtesy of Carol Donald and Stacy Dieckman

I am also grateful that I grew up in a home that was safe, stable, and loving. As a child, I took it for granted. As an adult I realized that many youth don’t have what I had. YESS allows me in some small way to pay it forward and help youth who are growing up in unsafe and unstable environments.

 

I believe the repetitive cycle of trauma, poverty, and homelessness can best be stopped if vulnerable youth canbe provided with the supports and life skills required to break the cycle at that critical  time, when the choices they make will shape the rest of their lives—and most likely the lives of their children as well.

Artist and Entrepreneur @WowFactorMosaics / Photo courtesy of Carol Donald and T8N

The staff at YESS let them know that someone cares about their outcomes, that there’s a safe place for them to be, and that there’s hope for tomorrow. Today’s youth are our future, and I believe the community has a responsibility to them.

If my contributions help to provide a support network that can enable youth to break the cycle, I will be grateful. The dedicated staff at YESS work daily to build and maintain that network. The need for the services available at YESS will always exist, which is why it was an easy decision for me to include a legacy gift to YESS in my will. 


We strive to do all we can to ensure that YESS will always be here for youth who needs us, as a place where youth are inspired to look to the future with hope, purpose, and the courage to strive for a better tomorrow.

Will you consider including YESS in your estate plans? Every legacy gift to YESS is a thoughtful gift from the heart, a meaningful part of your life story, and a way to help YESS thrive in its commitment to champion youth who reach out in their need for healing, relief, and guidance.

There are many options for planned giving. Some donors have made a contribution to the YESS Endowment Fund; others have established a separate fund in their family’s name; some have designated YESS as a beneficiary in their will or through an insurance policy. There are many ways to plan your gift. Some offer tax advantages today, and others through your estate.

We’d be happy to work with you, your family, and your advisors on a confidential basis to ensure that your gift meets your philanthropic goals.

If you have already provided for a legacy gift to YESS in your estate plans, we’d be delighted to learn in confidence about your future plans. Thank you for your life-changing gift! It will surely help to enable struggling young people to heal, improve their wellbeing, find connection and stability, and realize healthy futures.

To learn more about making a legacy gift, please contact Eileen Papulkas by phone at 780.468.7070 x298 or by email at eileen.papulkas@yess.org

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Interview with Chef Scott Jonathan Iserhoff

This article was originally published in the Spring 2019 newsletter. Scott spoke so powerfully about food, culture, and building positive relationships that we want to share it again.

Scott Jonathan Iserhoff is now the owner and chef of Pei Pei Chei Ow (pronounced “pe-pe-s-chew”), a catering company based in Edmonton creating contemporary Indigenous cuisine.

Learn more at peipeicheiow.com 

Hear more from Scott as one of the Indigenous chefs interviewed for “A Land of Rich Traditions” in Culinaire magazine.

Pei Pei Chei Ow was also featured as part of “The Original Original” campaign for Destination Indigenous


At YESS our vision is to walk beside traumatized youth on their journeys towards healing and appropriate community integration. This doesn’t just apply to youth workers in Programs—it applies to every department across YESS! And just like many other folks would say about their own homes, what happens in the kitchen is a huge part of the heart of our work at YESS.

We sat down with YESS Chef Scott Iserhoff to talk about his experiences in creating a space where youth can heal through his culinary calling. Scott studied culinary arts and hotel management in Ontario and has been a chef for over 15 years. But his love of food and community goes back farther than that.

“Cooking is an integral part of my Indigenous culture. My first exposure to food was through eating wild meat with my family and smoking goose over the fire with my grandparents,” says Scott.

How does Scott bring this same powerful feeling he first experienced in childhood to his work at YESS?

“In my culture we say that food is medicine,” says Scott. “Not only does it feed your body, but it also carries a strong sense of community and hard work. Preparing food for others can also be seen as ceremony. It feeds your spirit.”

Almost half of the youth who access YESS identify as Indigenous and Scott takes every opportunity he can to share culture and connection with all our youth.

“Being an Indigenous person and being present in the space of YESS contributes to many youth who are also Indigenous feeling more represented, safer, and having someone to relate to,” says Scott. “This also extends to cooking, where I have the chance to share my cultural dishes with the youth, providing many of them with comfort and connection through food.”

Last year we announced that our focus would move more towards trauma-informed care. This has started to reach out from youth programs to touch other areas of YESS to align all teams with what it means to walk beside youth on their journeys towards healing. This includes the kitchen in a major way.

“Food is one of the top resources we need to secure for our kids in trauma care and if we cannot reassure our kids that they will always have food, we will never get to the root of their trauma,” says Cherish Hepas, Kitchen Supervisor. “In a small way we add to a positive experience for our youth on a daily basis through food. It has been a joy to watch them literally eat their hearts out. Trauma-informed care will be a fantastic tool to help our kids. It’s going to be an exciting time for the agency as we embark on this new form of care.”

In his two years at YESS, Scott has impacted hundreds of young lives through food and culture, making YESS a safe and healing space for youth who have experienced trauma. What has Scott taken away from the time he has spent with youth?

“The most remarkable experiences for me are connecting with youth over food and hearing about what they’ve enjoyed or what food they’d like to try in the future,” says Scott. “I wish that more people were aware of homelessness in our city and the huge gaps in resources that still exist, as well as the prejudice and stigma that our youth have to face on a daily basis. With more awareness hopefully there will be more understanding and positive change.”

The special way that YESS chefs honour their work in the kitchen shows in the ways our youth experience food, build trust, and heal through relationships.

“This kitchen was given to me as a gift from my predecessor. I treat it like a very special gift. I teach my staff to treat it like a gift,” says Cherish. “That is what walking beside our youth is like. It’s a window into their souls. If this kitchen can somehow touch one of those beautiful souls through food, we will have added a little light in whatever darkness they battle. And that is what food is in the end. Something that truly nourishes.”

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