Living Your Legacy: A Simple Life of Gratitude

by Carol Donald

As a longtime donor to YESS, it wasn’t difficult when staff asked me if I could write something about what inspires me to donate: why, since 1998 I have supported their programs and services for youth through donations and volunteering; and why, since 2015, I have been a monthly donor; and why, when I recently updated my will, I included a bequest to YESS?


For me, gratitude is the most important emotion. I recall a newspaper clipping many years ago in which the writer essentially said if you are waiting for that big holiday, new car, or larger home, you won’t be happy much of the time. However, if you can be happy watching the sunset, having a coffee on the patio, or laughing with a friend, you will be happy most of the time. It all boils down to gratitude. I am most fortunate in that my typical day starts with coffee with a friend, a swim at the pool or a walk by the river, followed by time in my studio where I make mosaics. I live simply, and my basic needs are met. For all of that I am profoundly grateful.

The Joys of Volunteering / Photo courtesy of Carol Donald and Stacy Dieckman

I am also grateful that I grew up in a home that was safe, stable, and loving. As a child, I took it for granted. As an adult I realized that many youth don’t have what I had. YESS allows me in some small way to pay it forward and help youth who are growing up in unsafe and unstable environments.

 

I believe the repetitive cycle of trauma, poverty, and homelessness can best be stopped if vulnerable youth canbe provided with the supports and life skills required to break the cycle at that critical  time, when the choices they make will shape the rest of their lives—and most likely the lives of their children as well.

Artist and Entrepreneur @WowFactorMosaics / Photo courtesy of Carol Donald and T8N

The staff at YESS let them know that someone cares about their outcomes, that there’s a safe place for them to be, and that there’s hope for tomorrow. Today’s youth are our future, and I believe the community has a responsibility to them.

If my contributions help to provide a support network that can enable youth to break the cycle, I will be grateful. The dedicated staff at YESS work daily to build and maintain that network. The need for the services available at YESS will always exist, which is why it was an easy decision for me to include a legacy gift to YESS in my will. 


We strive to do all we can to ensure that YESS will always be here for youth who needs us, as a place where youth are inspired to look to the future with hope, purpose, and the courage to strive for a better tomorrow.

Will you consider including YESS in your estate plans? Every legacy gift to YESS is a thoughtful gift from the heart, a meaningful part of your life story, and a way to help YESS thrive in its commitment to champion youth who reach out in their need for healing, relief, and guidance.

There are many options for planned giving. Some donors have made a contribution to the YESS Endowment Fund; others have established a separate fund in their family’s name; some have designated YESS as a beneficiary in their will or through an insurance policy. There are many ways to plan your gift. Some offer tax advantages today, and others through your estate.

We’d be happy to work with you, your family, and your advisors on a confidential basis to ensure that your gift meets your philanthropic goals.

If you have already provided for a legacy gift to YESS in your estate plans, we’d be delighted to learn in confidence about your future plans. Thank you for your life-changing gift! It will surely help to enable struggling young people to heal, improve their wellbeing, find connection and stability, and realize healthy futures.

To learn more about making a legacy gift, please contact Eileen Papulkas by phone at 780.468.7070 x298 or by email at eileen.papulkas@yess.org

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A Lyrical Life of Faith, Music, and Mentorship: Professor Emeritus, Sandra Munn

Remembering Sandra with Mary-Lou Cleveland

Sandra Munn lived a life filled with the joy and passion of music, a life shaped by courage, vision, discipline, generosity, expectation, and standards. A warm personality, she was funny, outgoing, and vivacious. Deeply committed to a journey of continuous learning and growth, Sandra was never shy about encouraging a personal excellence; of daring to create that spark of change within one’s own sphere of daily life and influence. Most importantly, to be wholly inspired to recognize how one act of kindness has the power to lift someone up the whole of their life.

Sandra passed away on September 20, 2023, at age 89. Mary-Lou Cleveland, her colleague and very dear friend, graciously shares some reflections and insights on the life and philanthropy of Sandra Munn.


Sandra was a friend, an advocate, and a mentor. When you were her friend, you were a friend for life.

Sandra was a master teacher, and I and others are grateful for the opportunity of having been in one of her piano classes and private piano lessons. All of her students knew there was no try. Just do.

Sandra loved her family dearly. She was wonderful at providing presents to all of her godchildren on their birthdays. She loved writing and receiving letters. She loved road trips, driving, and reading books—especially spy thrillers. Sandra was someone who was always there if there was a crisis. She loved telephoning friends in Victoria, Vancouver, England, Australia, and Italy, just to keep in touch.

Sandra was an Anglican through and through. She loved everything about All Saints’ Cathedral: the liturgy, the wonderful music and organist, and the

altar guild. She was generous to a fault if someone was having a hard time or first time in the congregation. She was the first to welcome them and take them to lunch at the Commodore Restaurant on Jasper Ave.

If a student needed money to buy a grand piano or go to school, she was right there to assist. You didn’t have to be a musician. Students and others have enjoyed her generosity and continue to do so through the Alexandra M. Munn Scholarship Fund at the Edmonton Community Foundation.

Sandra leaves a legacy through her students. Her gift of loving music has been seeded across Canada and the United States through students who are conductors, performers, accompanists, singers, teachers, composers, or the

many who are able to simply enjoy playing and supporting the arts.

Sandra loved the Edmonton Symphony Orchestra and was a long-time subscriber. She loved the Youth Orchestra and Richard Eaton Singers and supported them with donations and her presence.

Before the move from her condo in the River Valley to Canterbury Manor, Sandra had mostly lived in Edmonton’s Whyte Avenue area. And so, she was attuned and familiar with seeing youth coming and going near YESS over the years as she would have travelled through and around the area. As an annual YESS donor, Sandra had a lasting impact for 25 years on the lives of young people seeking support and services in the face of critical situations and life-changing circumstances.

Intentional and informed, Sandra understood that estate planning documents provided an opportunity to leave clear and precise instructions regarding her overall final wishes and were also the perfect opportunity to include a gift to those causes that were deeply meaningful to her. YESS is so grateful to Sandra for the depth of her generosity and for making a legacy gift that not only underscored her belief in the youth but also her ability to make an impact for the future. A gift that joyfully makes room for and helps to provide the means to make a difference. 

Alexandra, Pianist Extraordinaire / Photo Courtesy of Mary-Lou Cleveland

At age three, she was recognized as a prodigy.

Sandra had perfect pitch, the ability to sight read like no other, and exuded a love for performance.

Accepted to the Juilliard School on an honorary scholarship in the piano class of Irwin Freundlich in 1953, completing a four-year course in two years!

In her third year, Sandra accepted a Teaching Fellowship with the Juilliard Piano Faculty. However, Family and Calgary called her home to Alberta.

In 1957, Sandra made her debut with the Calgary Philharmonic, playing Beethoven’s Concerto No.3 to great success. Sandra was invited back many times, playing Rachmaninoff’s Concerto No.2 and later, George Gershwin’s Rhapsody in Blue.

In the summers 1953-59, Sandra Coached pianists and singers at the Banff School of Fine Arts. Then, in 1962, Richard Eaton persuaded her to come to the University of Alberta and teach pianists and singers, encouraging them to be better than they could ever imagine, and created Art Song Classes.

Sandra loved performing with colleagues, accompanying and conducting the Richard Eaton Singers, finally leading them to a festival in England, a first trip abroad. Da Camera Singers was created. In 1992, Sandra retired from the University of Alberta.

Professor Emeritus not finished yet, Sandra joined the staff at Alberta College Conservatory of Music, teaching pianists, performing with other musicians and creating Art Song Classes. Retiring in 2018, Sandra created a collaborative Bach Project for pianists and singers, successfully launched at All Saints’ Cathedral.

She was recognized by the Edmonton Arts and Cultural Hall of Fame, 2001, and Queen Elizabeth II Golden Jubilee Medal, 2002.

We strive to do all we can to ensure that YESS will always be here for youth who needs us, as a place where youth are inspired to look to the future with hope, purpose, and the courage to strive for a better tomorrow.

Will you consider including YESS in your estate plans? Every legacy gift to YESS is a thoughtful gift from the heart, a meaningful part of your life story, and a way to help YESS thrive in its commitment to champion youth who reach out in their need for healing, relief, and guidance.

There are many options for planned giving. Some donors have made a contribution to the YESS Endowment Fund; others have established a separate fund in their family’s name; some have designated YESS as a beneficiary in their will or through an insurance policy. There are many ways to plan your gift. Some offer tax advantages today, and others through your estate.

We’d be happy to work with you, your family, and your advisors on a confidential basis to ensure that your gift meets your philanthropic goals.

If you have already provided for a legacy gift to YESS in your estate plans, we’d be delighted to learn in confidence about your future plans. Thank you for your life-changing gift! It will surely help to enable struggling young people to heal, improve their wellbeing, find connection and stability, and realize healthy futures.

To learn more about making a legacy gift, please contact Eileen Papulkas by phone at 780.468.7070 x298 or by email at eileen.papulkas@yess.org

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Understanding the Role of a Personal Representative in Estate Planning

by Jake Leveille, Associate Lawyer at Dentons LLP

When it comes to estate planning, the role of a personal representative is paramount. In Alberta, the term “personal representative” is used instead of “executor,” and this person serves as the cornerstone between the deceased’s wishes, as outlined in their will, and the distribution of their assets and settling of affairs.

While often overlooked or underestimated, the personal representative plays a crucial role in your estate plan. In this article, we will explore what a personal representative does, why they are essential, how to choose one and what duties they undertake.


What is a personal representative and why do you need one?

A personal representative is an individual appointed by the deceased, also known as the testator, to carry out the provisions of their will upon their death. Naming a personal representative in your will that you trust is vital for several reasons:

Ensuring your wishes are honoured: By appointing a personal representative, you can ensure that your assets are distributed according to your wishes,

as specified in your will. By choosing someone who understands your values and priorities, you can trust that they will act in your best interests and carry out your wishes with integrity and compassion.

Efficient administration: The administration of an estate can be complex and time-consuming, involving tasks such as preparing an inventory of assets, settling debts of the estate, and distributing assets to beneficiaries. With their organizational skills and attention to detail, a personal representative can navigate the intricacies of estate administration and minimize delays.

Minimizing family conflicts: By maintaining open lines of communication and addressing concerns promptly and transparently, a personal representative that you trust can help prevent misunderstandings amongst family members from escalating into conflicts.

 

What should you keep in mind when choosing a personal representative?

Trustworthiness: Your personal representative should be someone you trust implicitly to carry out your wishes and act in the best interests of your estate. In many cases, family members such as a spouse or adult child, as well as close friends, are named as personal representatives.

Organizational skills: Estate administration can be complex and time- consuming. A personal representative with strong organizational skills can navigate the process more efficiently.

Availability: Choose someone who has the time and availability to dedicate to the responsibilities of being your personal representative.

Financial literacy: Dealing with finances and legal matters is a significant aspect of the personal representative’s role. Consider selecting someone who is financially literate or has access to appropriate professional advice.

 

What are the duties of a personal representative?

Funeral: Making funeral and burial/ cremation arrangements and ensuring that any associated costs are promptly paid by the estate.

Asset and debt management: Identifying and safeguarding the deceased’s assets, including property, investments, and personal belongings. They will also need to investigate all debts and other possible claims against the estate, including from estranged or dissatisfied spouses, partners, and children.

Reporting: Personal representatives must report to the beneficiaries and keep them informed on a regular basis. They must maintain adequate and complete accounts, and respond promptly to inquiries from beneficiaries.

Probate: Determining if they need to apply for a Grant of Probate. This is a court application to formally ‘prove’ the will. Many financial institutions and the Land Titles Office require a Grant of Probate before they will allow the personal representative to access and administer the estate’s assets.

Distribution of assets: Distributing assets to beneficiaries as outlined in the will, following any legal requirements, and ensuring fairness among beneficiaries.

Legal compliance: Ensuring compliance with all legal requirements, including filing tax returns, and obtaining necessary court approvals.

The personal representative plays a vital role in the estate planning process, ensuring that your wishes are carried out and your estate is administered efficiently. Thoughtful estate planning is a gift that you can give your family, and choosing the right personal representative is an important part that requires careful consideration of various factors. By fulfilling their duties diligently, a personal representative can help ease the burden on grieving loved ones and ensure a smooth transition of assets to beneficiaries. 


This article was written by Jake Leveille, an associate lawyer in the Trusts, Estates and Wealth Preservation group at Dentons Canada LLP. Jake’s practice focuses on trusts, estate planning, and estate administration for both simple and complex estates, and he has a passion for developing estate plans that match the needs of his clients and their families.

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Wrapped in Love: The Enduring Gift of a Solid Foundation

by Jan Colter

Suzanne and Donald Colter gifted the very best of themselves to their family, intentionally passing on a legacy rich and consistent with their beliefs and values: the importance of being kind and compassionate, helping others without expectation, facing challenges with courage and sacrifice, being truly present, and finding joy in simplicity and optimism. With unwavering love, Sue and Don had a profound impact on their children, grandchildren, and all those whose lives they touched.

Remembering a loved one is one of the most honourable things you could do. Their daughter, Jan Colter, reflects on some of the countless important life lessons imparted by her parents to help shape the lives of herself, her siblings, and their families.


A good start in life / Photo courtesy of Jan Colter

I only learned about my mom’s philanthropy when she and my dad (Sue and Don) both developed and had major health problems twenty years ago, at almost the same time. I took over their financial affairs and saw for the first time the quiet and consistent donations that she had been giving for years and years. Until then, the gifts she gave closer to home were significant—financial to be sure, but more often gifts of time, attention, thoughtfulness.

Sue’s philanthropy centered on supporting the arts and improving the lives of those less fortunate than herself. While the list of charities was eclectic, her focus was on women, families, and youth in need… done with unspoken determination. She obviously saw “family” as much bigger than just her own!

Sue Colter: More beautiful as she aged / Photo courtesy of Jan Colter

We always knew the force of her sense of family—in every aspect of our lives. My mom felt fortunate to have lived most of her life in a relatively privileged environment, but you’d never have known it if you met her. She was quiet, hard-working, determined, unpretentious, and generous. Her kids and theirs knew that her time was all for them when they were with her. Nothing was more important to her than that we felt special, loved, and heard! She was absolutely beloved in return.

Sue spent her earliest years alone with her own mother, until her mom remarried, moved, and added two new stepsisters to their family. She left home at 18 for university in Edmonton and married Don right after graduation. They spent their early married life in small town Alberta, where he was the junior of only a couple of town doctors. She soon found herself raising three small children, at the tender age of 23. Brooks was very small in the early 1950s and Don worked long hours. I think those years were challenging and a little lonely for a young, city girl from Calgary. She met the challenge … “super mom” kicked in and we all benefitted.

Sue, Don, and the Grands / Photo courtesy of Jan Colter

After ten years they moved to Edmonton, where they enjoyed a happy and full life. We owe so much of the quality of our lives to having parents like them, who supported us completely and shared with us their many interests. After their kids were educated and launched, they continued to enrich the lives and welfare of their grandchildren in the years to come. Many of our childhood friends saw Sue as their second mom, and my dad never stopped being the kindly small town doctor he ever was.

I truly think that Mom’s early years as a girl and then young mom instilled in her the importance of support in vulnerable times. Hence her focus on her own family and helping us successfully launch from a solid and caring home. Hence her long support for women and youth, the core of our society, who deserve so much but sadly don’t always get the support they need and deserve. She tried to help them during her lifetime, and again by including them along with us in her will. YESS is the most pertinent and deserving organization she could have chosen. 

What you need to know if you wish to leave a gift to YESS in your will

YESS’ legal name: Y.E.S.S.: Youth Emergency Shelter Society of Edmonton o/a (YESS) Youth Empowerment and Support Services

CRA Registered Charitable No.: 12953-7437 RR 0001

Full mailing address: 9310 82 Ave NW Edmonton AB T6C 0Z6

Sample wording for a Specific gift in your Will:
“I give to Y.E.S.S.: Youth Emergency Shelter Society of Edmonton o/a (YESS) Youth Empowerment and Support Services currently of 9310 82 Ave NW, Edmonton, AB, T6C 0Z6, the sum of $ to be used at the discretion of the organization.”

Sample wording for a Residual gift in your Will:
“I give to Y.E.S.S.: Youth Emergency Shelter Society of Edmonton o/a (YESS) Youth Empowerment and Support Services currently of 9310 82 Ave NW, Edmonton, AB, T6C 0Z6, all (or %) of the residue of my estate, to be used at the discretion of the organization.”

We strive to do all we can to ensure that YESS will always be here for youth who needs us, as a place where youth are inspired to look to the future with hope, purpose, and the courage to strive for a better tomorrow.

Will you consider including YESS in your estate plans? Every legacy gift to YESS is a thoughtful gift from the heart, a meaningful part of your life story, and a way to help YESS thrive in its commitment to champion youth who reach out in their need for healing, relief, and guidance.

There are many options for planned giving. Some donors have made a contribution to the YESS Endowment Fund; others have established a separate fund in their family’s name; some have designated YESS as a beneficiary in their will or through an insurance policy. There are many ways to plan your gift. Some offer tax advantages today, and others through your estate.

We’d be happy to work with you, your family, and your advisors on a confidential basis to ensure that your gift meets your philanthropic goals.

If you have already provided for a legacy gift to YESS in your estate plans, we’d be delighted to learn in confidence about your future plans. Thank you for your life-changing gift! It will surely help to enable struggling young people to heal, improve their wellbeing, find connection and stability, and realize healthy futures.

To learn more about making a legacy gift, please contact Eileen Papulkas by phone at 780.468.7070 x298 or by email at eileen.papulkas@yess.org

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The Power of Strategic Giving: Understanding the Donor-Advised Fund

by Michael Todd, Philanthropic Consultant with Transform Philanthropy

The donor-advised fund, or DAF, is Canada’s fastest growing giving vehicle, and yet it’s very possible you have never heard of it. It’s a giving vehicle that allows a donor to give today, receive the tax benefits today, and to grant to their favorite charity or charities over time. It will change your giving from reactive cheque-writing to very strategic philanthropy. In practical terms, you donate to a foundation that sponsors DAFs, and then provide recommendations on where that foundation ultimately grants the funds. Because you made an irrevocable donation to the foundation and received a tax receipt at that time, you have legally given up control of the assets. That’s why we call it a recommendation, but generally foundations that offer DAFs are cause-agnostic, meaning will send the funds to any properly registered Canadian charity that you choose.

With online donor-advised funds, you can set up an account, donate some money via your credit card, and you’re all set. Some, like GiveWise, have no minimum. I would encourage you to grab your credit card, set up an account and put $25 in it. Then, find YESS in the database and request a grant to them! It will give you a chance to see for yourself how easy this is.

The rest of this article will refer to a broader donor-advised fund, where someone has donated financial assets like stocks or mutual funds. In cases like this, there is an investment account that holds these assets. They can be held, changed, and then some can be sold and converted to cash when it comes time to make a grant to a charity.

A good way to think of the DAF is as two separate transactions:

  1. You make a donation into the
  2. You request a grant to charity out of the DAF at any time.

Let’s look at some of the benefits.


1. Immediate tax credit, future grant distribution

One of the core benefits of the DAF is the ability to claim an immediate tax credit in the year you fund the account,

regardless of when you make a request to grant the funds

to a charity of your choice. This allows for some strategic tax planning. Imagine a year where you receive a bonus, or some other significant windfall. By contributing to a DAF, you can reduce your current tax burden while reserving the decision of which charities to support for later. This is a very important element of a DAF: You put assets into it when you have them, or when you’re facing a tax bill, or not necessarily when you are asked for a donation. Remember those two separate transactions above!

 

2.    Tax-free growth

The funds within your DAF are typically invested, with the potential for tax-free growth. The reason for the tax-free growth is simple. Remember, the funds legally belong to the foundation sponsoring the DAF, and as a charity, that foundation does not pay tax. This means your charitable dollars have the power to compound tax-free over time, ultimately maximizing your impact on the causes you care about.

 

3.   Streamlined giving

All of your charitable giving can now be made from your DAF. Regardless of how many different charities you grant to, your tax receipts are stored in your DAF account. No more shoeboxes under the bed, no more lost receipts, and no more writing cheques!

 

4.   Time for research and due diligence

Choosing the right charities to support can take time. A DAF allows you to contribute funds upfront and then conduct research before recommending grants. You can make sure your donations are aligned with your evolving philanthropic goals and have the greatest possible impact.

 

5.   Family philanthropy

DAFs can be a powerful tool for fostering a culture of giving

within your family. You can involve family members in the grant recommendation process, creating shared values and a lasting legacy of giving. You can even name your DAF and include your family name if you wish, further solidifying your philanthropic commitment. This is a great way to involve the next generation.

 

6.   Professional wealth management

While some DAF sponsors offer in-house professional wealth management services, many will allow you to continue to work with your own trusted advisor. Having access to these experienced professionals helps ensure your fund grows over time, maximizing the resources available for future grants.

 

7.  Long-term strategy

DAFs can be the cornerstone of your long-term philanthropic strategy. You can continue contributing to your DAF throughout your lifetime, providing a steady stream of support for the causes you care about. You can even designate successors who will continue your charitable legacy after you’re gone.

 

Donor-advised funds are a powerful tool for individuals who want to maximize the impact of their charitable giving. From immediate tax benefits and tax-free growth to flexibility and streamlined giving, DAFs offer a convenient and efficient solution for strategic charitable giving. Frankly, using a DAF for your giving is also fun and very satisfying. Give this some thought, and also give it a try, and see how your giving experience changes. 


Michael Todd, MFA-P, a philanthropic consultant with Transform Philanthropy, assists donors with their charitable giving, and is an expert in the donor-advised fund.

Mike is one of those rare people who loves what he does, and isn’t afraid to say it. He started his career with 12 years in wealth management. He then spent a decade in the charitable sector before moving to China for two years, simply because he wanted to see that country and experience it for himself.

Connect with him on LinkedIn, or reach out to mike@transformphilanthropy.ca if you have questions.

 

DAF Fast Facts

from Influence, Affluence & Opportunity: Donor-advised Funds in Canada by KCI and CAGP Foundation

 

We strive to do all we can to ensure that YESS will always be here for youth who needs us, as a place where youth are inspired to look to the future with hope, purpose, and the courage to strive for a better tomorrow.

Will you consider including YESS in your estate plans? Every legacy gift to YESS is a thoughtful gift from the heart, a meaningful part of your life story, and a way to help YESS thrive in its commitment to champion youth who reach out in their need for healing, relief, and guidance.

There are many options for planned giving. Some donors have made a contribution to the YESS Endowment Fund; others have established a separate fund in their family’s name; some have designated YESS as a beneficiary in their will or through an insurance policy. There are many ways to plan your gift. Some offer tax advantages today, and others through your estate.

We’d be happy to work with you, your family, and your advisors on a confidential basis to ensure that your gift meets your philanthropic goals.

If you have already provided for a legacy gift to YESS in your estate plans, we’d be delighted to learn in confidence about your future plans. Thank you for your life-changing gift! It will surely help to enable struggling young people to heal, improve their wellbeing, find connection and stability, and realize healthy futures.

To learn more about making a legacy gift, please contact Eileen Papulkas by phone at 780.468.7070 x298 or by email at eileen.papulkas@yess.org

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At the Forefront of Change, Advocacy, and Changed Policy for Those Living with Addiction: One Mother’s Story

by Leslie McBain

First, I must tell you that my beautiful only child Jordan McBain Miller died at age 25 from an accidental prescription drug overdose. He did not die of the tragic epidemic of toxic street drug deaths we now face. He had become addicted to a painkiller prescribed by our doctor for a back injury. Jordan was a child of privilege; we had enough money, we always had a home, our family of three was always intact. Jordan had what we thought were minor mental health challenges such as ADHD and dyslexia.

These are in part what drove him into drug use, addiction, and accidental overdose death. Jordan loved people and animals, and even had his own small business by the age of 23. He had a loving partner. He was set to enjoy a full life.

And thus begins the story of my own advocacy and support for vulnerable people, especially people who use illicit substances and are vulnerable to poverty, racism, trauma, and mental health issues.

I met two Edmonton women, Petra Schultz and Lorna Thomas, upon learning that their sons too had died of drug harms. We decided to create an organization to advocate for better policies to support vulnerable people who use illicit substances.

The short story is that after some trial and error we created a non-profit organization called Moms Stop the Harm. From the three of us in 2016 on to this writing we have grown to over 3000 members across Canada. Our goal is to support people who use drugs by advocating for government drug policies that actually save lives. This takes us into many different pathways of support. We advocate for a regulated supply of drugs that are implemented through physicians, health systems, and a few other pathways that are legal and safe. Our primary goal is to keep people alive until they’re able to access treatment and recovery services, mental health supports, housing, and safe environments in which to live. We do much of our work by striving to educate the public through social media, webinars, letters to the editor, panels, and talks.

We sincerely believe that everyone, but especially youth, deserve safety, connection, health care, education, and a job. Only non-profits such as YESS seem to be able to address these needs in a positive and well-rounded way.

My father, Ross McBain, was a “mover and shaker” in Edmonton from around 1950 to the day he died in 2018 at age 94. He was always very involved in his beloved Edmonton community in business, sports, and community events such as Klondike Days, and in employing many people in his camera business. He was a man who would take a chance on someone who perhaps didn’t have the experience or the knowledge but was willing to learn. He was rarely disappointed in people’s potential and ability to do a great job. I remember a few times when things didn’t exactly work out, but those were few and far between! My father believed deeply in volunteerism and he believed in supporting those less fortunate. He did thousands of hours of volunteer work in his life. All of us, his five children, have had volunteerism as part of our lives. In some ways, I believe the family we are born into is the luck of the draw. We lucked out!

Ross McBain built a foundation for giving and we, his family, have the wonderful responsibility of administrating that foundation. YESS has always been on our list and as I look more into this organization, I am so impressed and grateful that YESS does what it does. And I truly believe that we who can help, must help! Walking the talk, as they say, brings some peace and joy to others but also a feeling of fulfilment to the helpers.

Every single youth deserves the best that life has to offer. But some are not that lucky. As a society, it is our duty to help and support our valuable and vulnerable youth to find safety, health, and connection, and to see their worth in this world.

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The Impact of a Gift of Securities

from an anonymous YESS donor

There are so many worthy causes accomplishing really wonderful things in the community. By following my own charitable compass, several have caught my attention over time.

You can really admire the work of Dogs with Wings and its service dogs helping to make disabled individuals more able. The Edmonton Food Bank is a real lifeline for so many, especially in these times with so much food insecurity. YONA- Sistema is an amazing after-school music-centred program offered by the Edmonton Symphony Orchestra. Students get help with their studies too. They make it fun and interesting.

And of course, YESS provides such good support for struggling young people without the benefit of a solid home and family life. Like many of your donors, I’ve long admired and supported the good work of YESS. Young people of every generation have always faced tough times, but the challenges of today are growing at an incredible pace and severity. Thankfully, YESS is there to help enable them to work towards a positive future, wellness, and eventual independence.

Being confident in the work of a charity I’m supporting, it only makes sense to make an actual gift in the manner that is the most efficient and advantageous tax-wise for me. My giving through securities is all about the taxes. With the current CRA rules, I don’t have to pay capital gains tax on my in-kind securities donation and I’m able to give the full value of my donated securities. And that’s a real benefit for me and for the charity!


We strive to do all we can to ensure that YESS will always be here for youth who needs us, as a place where youth are inspired to look to the future with hope, purpose, and the courage to strive for a better tomorrow.

Will you consider including YESS in your estate plans? Every legacy gift to YESS is a thoughtful gift from the heart, a meaningful part of your life story, and a way to help YESS thrive in its commitment to champion youth who reach out in their need for healing, relief, and guidance.

There are many options for planned giving. Some donors have made a contribution to the YESS Endowment Fund; others have established a separate fund in their family’s name; some have designated YESS as a beneficiary in their will or through an insurance policy. There are many ways to plan your gift. Some offer tax advantages today, and others through your estate.

We’d be happy to work with you, your family, and your advisors on a confidential basis to ensure that your gift meets your philanthropic goals.

If you have already provided for a legacy gift to YESS in your estate plans, we’d be delighted to learn in confidence about your future plans. Thank you for your life-changing gift! It will surely help to enable struggling young people to heal, improve their wellbeing, find connection and stability, and realize healthy futures.

To learn more about making a legacy gift, please contact Eileen Papulkas by phone at 780.468.7070 x298 or by email at eileen.papulkas@yess.org

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Youth Empowerment Through Food

Tell us about yourself and your position at YESS!

Hi! I’m currently the Program Kitchen Coordinator here at YESS.  What does that mean?  I’m a professionally trained Red Seal Chef that has a passion for food sustainability, cooking, teaching, and gardening, and I get the pleasure of sharing that knowledge and skills with as many people as possible. 

My role has changed over the years, but it involves highlighting various cultures by hosting a monthly cultural cooking class and dinners.  Other parts of my role include teaching cooking life skills to our youth, running the always expanding garden project, providing groceries and teaching youth how to grocery shop in one of our programs. 

Over the past five years, I’ve taken some initiative to expand my own skills in learning about food trauma and body positivity, which I’ve been able to apply in my own practices with staff and youth, working to help recognize and work through some of their own food trauma and/or just to help expand their knowledge and skills.

Day to day you’ll find me wandering around the garden pulling weeds, chatting with youth and staff about food, cooking with youth, coaching with staff, or grocery shopping. After work, you’ll find me playing in my own garden, paddling on the river, cooking, cuddling with my fur son Henry, or playing some sort of sport.

 

How do you support youth and youth workers with the “food supports and skills” part of the holistic (physical, emotional, mental, spiritual/cultural) assessment?

My role is focused around supporting youth and staff with food support and skills. I like to focus on addressing education, nutrition, and the emotional needs of our youth and staff when providing support to them. This is done by ensuring access to fresh healthy foods, sharing knowledge, hands-on training, and gardening projects.

 I gain familiarity with staff and open the conversation by being part of the onboarding process, by teaching kitchen and food safety, as well as our internal processes relating to food service. From there, I continue to offer support and resources to staff as requested.

I try to be as trauma informed and holistic as possible by being flexible when working with youth and meeting them where they’re at. I like to make sure classes are as interactive as the youth wants, realistic, and appropriate for their skill level and capacity. 

 

What is the importance of cultural meals in the spiritual/cultural wellbeing of youth?

Our youth come from a variety of cultures so providing regular cultural meals and cooking classes helps foster healthy connections to heritage and identity, as well as providing educational opportunities to learn about other cultures or share stories about your own culture or family traditions. Having those conversations builds community and connection among our youth and staff, which helps foster respectful relationships. Cultural meals can also provide comfort and a sense of safety among our youth while they may have to navigate unfamiliarity, stress, and change.  I really enjoy learning about different cultural foods, sharing what I learn, and being able to provide culture specific foods for youth as requested. 

 

What role does the garden at Whyte play in this connection with food?

The garden project at Whyte is one of my favourite parts of my role, and probably proudest as well.  With the closing of Shanoa’s Place earlier this year, and the help of our Volunteer Program Officer and their teams of volunteers, we were able to move that garden over to our Whyte Ave location, and expand our capacity for growing food. 

In spending time in the garden, I find the youth often like to hang around and ask questions about what is being grown, when it will be ready, and maybe tell me their favourite things to make using things from the garden. 

Gardening in itself can be very grounding, healing, and even meditative.  Also, just the benefits of growing your own food is so satisfying.

 

What is one thing you wish the community knew about youth who access YESS?

One thing I wish the community knew about youth who access YESS is that they are resilient, and resourceful, often facing significant challenges, and still need our support, and understanding while having their needs met. 

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The Healing Power of Food

I’m Bethany Zelent, Manager of the Wellness Integration Team at YESS. I support a multi-disciplinary mental health team to model, teach, and empower inner stabilization through co-regulation practices to foster holistic emotional, physical, mental, and cultural wellbeing. Providing mental health supports in-house at YESS reduces barriers to young people accessing these services by ensuring they have the help they need when they need it. Accessing mental health supports in the community requires planning, scheduling, transportation, knowledge of resources, and advocacy; but when a young person is in crisis, they need presence, support, and validation. Providing in-house mental health supports literally meets young people where they’re at, as they develop the skills they need to navigate community resources.

In collaboration with subject matter experts and professional consultants, YESS has meticulously designed a comprehensive Holistic Assessment to address the foundations of wellness in young people, ensuring both their basic and existential needs are met and barriers are reduced. The Holistic Assessment, in consultation with Indigenous leaders and Knowledge Keepers, incorporates the elements of the Medicine Wheel—physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual/cultural wellness. Over the last six months, I have been fortunate to have the opportunity to collaborate with a team of experts in the creation and implementation of the Holistic Assessment.

Food transcends all 4 categories of the Holistic Assessment, as an integral aspect of physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual /cultural wellbeing:

  • From a physical perspective, regular access to food provides the nutrients necessary for brain myelination, building synaptic connections to support learning and development.
  • More than the physical benefits of having their basic needs met, food is deeply connected to our collective experiences of gathering, togetherness, sharing, and legacy. Sharing meals can foster social connections and a sense of community, which are essential for emotional support and mental health.
  • At YESS, our collective mealtimes are an opportunity for young people to connect to each other, as well as with staff; after all, food is a great equalizer. The consistency and predictability of regular hot meals provide a sense of safety and stability for young people, which is essential for their emotional and psychological wellbeing.
  • Having access to nutritious meals at scheduled times helps create a routine that young people can rely on, reducing anxiety about food insecurity and ensuring their basic needs are met. YESS is fortunate to have the expertise of professional chefs preparing homemade, nutritious, and flavourful meals with great cultural variety twice every day. Young people accessing YESS services have the opportunity to enjoy shepherd’s pie, Tandoori chicken with rice and naan, pumpkin gnocchi, zucchini boats, beef stir fry, and more. This stability not only supports physical health but also fosters a sense of security and trust in their environment, enabling them to focus on learning, social interactions, and personal growth with greater confidence and resilience.

 

The monthly Cultural Dinner is my personal favourite example of the holistic impact of food on the wellbeing of young people. Each month, two different cultural dinners are prepared in program so young people can observe, participate, and enjoy meals from cultures around the world. Tiffany, our incredible Kitchen Coordinator, informally collects recipes from young people and staff alike to alternate the different cultures and ensure equitable representation. Young people who are newcomers to Canada are able to enjoy familiar food from their home country, fostering a sense of comfort, connection to their culture, and emotional wellbeing. Tiffany has been guided by young people themselves to recreate family recipes, showing ongoing learning as we all continue to develop our cooking skills and relationship with food. For young people disconnected from their culture, whether from a diaspora or urbanization, Tiffany is able to recreate cultural meals to bridge their cultural connection through this great equalizer: food. The process of creating the food includes clean-up and savouring the meal, so young people are taken through the entire process from individual ingredients to a full meal with leftovers they can continue to enjoy. Tiffany has brought Ethopian, Congolese, Indigenous, Indian, and many more cultural dishes to the table of young people to learn and share from one another.

Our goal at YESS is for young people accessing our services to develop the skills they need to thrive in in[ter]dependence (in[ter]dependence in the development of young people is a balance of self-sufficiency and reliance on supportive relationships. By developing a healthy in[ter]dependence, young people learn to be self-sufficient in their life and benefit from the support and collaboration of others to overcome challenges and enhance their wellbeing.) At YESS, we ensure young people have the food they need to be well and also provide the guidance for young people to learn to practice independent meal preparation, budget effectively for groceries, and plan nutritious meals. These skills promote autonomy and contributes to their overall wellbeing and long-term stability. To ensure young people have the personalized guidance they deserve, YESS benefits from the expertise and compassion of our Kitchen Coordinator, Tiffany Sorensen. Tiffany skillfully blends her experience as a Red Seal chef with her education in food trauma recovery and body positivity to offer 1:1 sessions with young people accessing YESS services or after they have achieved in[ter]dependence. Tiffany offers comprehensive services focused on guided skill development in meal preparation, including proper knife handling, food safety practices, and effective food storage techniques to reduce food waste and risk of food-related illness. She also provides tailored guidance on budget-conscious grocery planning and creative cooking with limited ingredients, empowering clients to maximize their resources. Additionally, Tiffany specializes in accommodating neurodiverse needs, offering personalized strategies for grocery shopping and meal planning that cater to diverse sensory and dietary preferences, ensuring inclusivity and accessibility in culinary education.

Food plays a crucial role in shaping the minds and bodies of developing young people, impacting them beyond mere physical sustenance. Proper nutrition supports their physical growth, ensuring organs develop optimally and immune systems remain robust during their formative years. The nutrients in food are instrumental in enhancing cognitive function, sharpening memory, and improving concentration and problem-solving abilities. Moreover, the link between food and mental health is profound. A balanced diet can significantly influence mood regulation and emotional resilience. For instance, deficiencies in key nutrients have been associated with mood disorders such as depression and anxiety, highlighting the importance of nutrition in maintaining emotional wellbeing. Beyond its physiological impacts, the act of sharing meals fosters social connections and provides emotional comfort, promoting a sense of belonging and reducing feelings of isolation among young people. Food is more than just sustenance for young people—it is a cornerstone of their growth, health, and overall quality of life.

Food serves as a powerful therapeutic tool that intertwines our capacity to both accept and receive love. Developing culinary skills not only enhances our ability to prepare nourishing meals but also cultivates a deeper appreciation for self-worth and the significance of self-care. By engaging in the practice of cooking, young people learn to nurture themselves and others, fostering a profound sense of connection and fulfillment. Prioritizing nutritional needs simultaneously recognizes their intrinsic value and an essential act of self-love and affirmation, reinforcing the belief in one’s deservingness of care and compassion. Sharing food offers more than just sustenance; it also reduces isolation by fostering connections and rebuilding trust among individuals.

Young people accessing YESS services are just that—young people. They are learning and growing in their skills, practicing for in[ter]dependence. They are learning and growing, making mistakes, and trying again. All young people deserve to have a safe place to grow and develop because all young people deserve to thrive in the world.

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Food as Part of Holistic Wellbeing

We recognize that part of our expertise at YESS is developing holistic wellbeing assessments and outcome frameworks.

 

Why are “food supports and skills” a core part of youth assessment?

Food supports and skills are a core part of assessing our youth because it helps us understand their needs better and meet them where they are at with a trauma informed approach. This is a key piece for us to better understand their current nutritional state, and helps us know how to guide/teach them these essential life skills to help them become empowered and more self-sufficient. 

 

What processes or principles do youth workers use to help youth move through the condition levels in the assessment, when it comes to “food supports and skills”?

Youth workers are encouraged to empower youth to expand their food/cooking life skills by creating safe and supportive environments, ongoing support, and encouragement, as well as hands-on support/training. Staff are all trained on kitchen safety and basic skills as part of the onboarding process with follow up check-ins as well. As they continue to work with youth, they create a plan, and support them in moving through the levels of the assessment, with opportunities for hands-on support through cooking classes with our Program Kitchen Coordinator, Chef Tiffany. 

 

Why is it important to support youth in their physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual/cultural wellbeing? Why is it important that youth not only have access to food in programs, but also develop independence around their food skills?

Supporting youth in their physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual/cultural wellbeing is essential for their holistic development and long-term success. Proper nutrition is vital for development and overall physical wellbeing by promoting a healthy immune system. Learning food life skills is empowering and helps boost self-esteem, confidence, security, and independence. Focusing on cultural connections can help youth feel a sense of belonging, identity, wellbeing, and can feel healing as well. Developing food skills is crucial for self-sufficiency and independent living.  It can also open doors for employment opportunities, and sustainable living, while promoting healthy habits. 

 

Learn more about the new YESS Strategic Plan and vision for a more connected, holistic, and lower-barrier system for youth in crisis 

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